But also remember, you gotta love you first. Take care of yourself and be healthy because you love and respect yourself, not as a way to get a guy.There is of course a point where too fat is just too fat and it swallows up any good shape the body naturally had, but this is equally true for too thin.I probably have a slight preference for having a little extra meat jiggling around, but mostly a good body is just a good body, some petite and slim women can have them too, but yeah lots of rather “plus sized” women definitely do as well.